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Other people are responsible for    I pity you. Some people advise      mostly fools. Getting pregnant can
          their own choices. They are not     playing to your strengths and       happen very quickly; legally and
          obligated to finance yours.         strengthening your weaknesses       morally you will be responsible
                                              with education and experience. I    for the resulting little human for
          This next chunk of advice is        suggest that you do not become      the next eighteen years of your life
          something I never thought I         obsessed with working on your       – at least.
          would be inclined to give; it is due   weaknesses. If you are 5’ tall,
          to the times we live in. Remember,   your chances of becoming a         For those who choose to go to
          this comes under the heading of     professional basketball forward     college, remember financial aid
          knowing yourself. When God          are rather slim, no matter how      loans must be paid off, and that
          created the human reproduction                                              includes interest. Sacrifice
          method, it appeared rather simple,                                          and work hard to avoid
          straightforward, and almost                                                 them. Community colleges
          humorous. Did he have any clue                                              can provide an excellent
          of how determined humans were                                               foundation for a degree at a
          to break rules and want to do                                               much-reduced cost. If you
          things their way? If, at this time                                          are enrolling in college to
          in your life, you are considering                                           major in partying or getting a
          transitioning or running out of                                             MRS. degree, be sure and tell
          your closet yelling, “Free at last”,                                        your parents or the financial
          please back off and allow your                                              aid officer before you stick
          body, emotions, and hormones                                                your hand out for their cash.
          time to settle down. You have just                                          They also have the choice of
          gone through puberty, and that                                              whether or not to indulge
          involves so many changes in such                                            you.
          a short period of time that many
          teenagers walk around making                                                Humans have so many
          really dumb decisions.   Live in                                            choices. Some are for long
          the adult body you were given for                                           range plans, and others
          several years before you try on a                                           must be on the spot. A
                                                                                      large part of maturity is
          different one.                      many hours you spend practicing     accepting responsibility for your
          II. Take a Stand. When you can      your free shots. I accept that,     choices. The people you choose to
          clearly define what you want out    with my extreme lack of musical     associate with will appreciate you
          of life, decide what you will have   ability, I would be better off     choosing to be a happy human
          to do to get it. Be specific - being   listening to music than horrifying   being as you travel life’s road of
          happy, successful, and rich are     the world with my singing.          choices.
          way too vague. Many people          However, I could be a music
          don’t define what they consider     historian, an archivist or a joyful
          successful, nor do they determine   noise maker.                        Ed. Note: Martha Jo is a member of
          what they quantify as being rich.   III. Get Real. Don’t base your life   the Life Savers Writing Group at The
          Monetary means are not the only     choices on emotions, whims, or      Continental (Park Central).  She is a
          source of richness. And being       foolishness. Most big decisions     retired History and English teacher
          “rich” does not automatically       will benefit from delaying long     from Canyon High School and
          equal happiness. Did you ever       enough for prayer, research,        Clarendon College.
          read about Silas Marner or          consultation with a trusted
          Scrooge? Free Will is very seldom   advisor or a cooling-off period.
          free. You are accountable for your   Don’t take on a mate and babies
          choices. If you want to be rich,    until you can support them. Love
          regardless of how many lives        seldom automatically conquers
          you wreck or laws you break,        all. Starry-eyed fools are still





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