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HONORING SENIORS


































              CHOICES












              by Martha Jo Risley





                   umans make mistakes,        indiscretions tend to become       to turn the page and read the
                   money, whoopee, a big       self-righteous, humorless, and     advice of someone of their own
           Hta-do about nothing, or            boring. Few chronologically        ilk. If being the life of the party is
            just make do. However, most        gifted persons can resist dumping   a strain, no matter how hard you
            often and most importantly         advice on any and all. Certainly,   try, I suggest that you read Quiet:
            in our lives, we make choices.     I cannot. My three strongest       The Power of Introverts in a World
            We make hundreds of choices,       points of advice to young people   that Can’t Stop Talking by Susan
            consciously and subconsciously,    regarding their future happiness   Cain. Trying to be something
            every day. We don’t have a choice   include the following:            that you aren’t is exhausting.
            about who our parents are, what                                       For your own clarification, write
            environments we are born into,     I. “Know thyself” is a bit of      down what you really believe -
            or what our basic personality      advice accredited to an ancient    not what others have said you
            traits are, but we can choose how   Greek named Socrates. Take the    should believe. Dig deeply.
            to respond to those factors.       time and effort to get acquainted   Decide what you sincerely want
                                               with who you are, what you         out of life - again, not what
            For most people, “old and wise”    believe, and what you want out     others, including parents, say you
            is preceded by several years of    of life. I am a happy, introverted   should want. If you really want to
            “young and foolish”. Those poor    grandmother. Therefore,            be an unemployed bum, figure in
            souls who deny any youthful        gregarious extroverts may want     how to feed and house yourself.




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