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          Gleaning from Grandparents







          HOW LEGACY HAPPENS by Ted Wilson

         I                                                    had an inkling of   get to stay with Lollie and Jim often,
            have the honor of
            having grandparents
                                                              what Romans 12:9
                                                                                 especially in the summer, sometimes
            and a great
                                                              is evil, cling to
          grandmother who                                     states, “Hate what   with my brother Paul. Jim walked to
                                                                                 the gin that bore his last name, and
          greatly impacted my                                 what is good.”     we would always walk there with
          life. My grandmother,                                                  him. Not so much went on in the
          Lola Whorton, was, for                              Grandmother        office during the summer, but we
          a time, a young mother                              did not drive,     were enticed by those 6.5-ounce glass
          working as a hairdresser                            so we walked       bottles of cokes in the coke machine,
          and raising two children.                           everywhere. It     and we had the key.
          Then Jim Keene came                                 was just a couple
          into the equation with                              of blocks to the   The office was okay, but the gin, with
          two children to add                                 grocery store and   all its machinery, was a wonderful
          into the mix, and they                              only a bit further   place to explore, climb, and hide.
          moved to Lorenzo from                               to the Methodist   I preferred climbing up shafts and
          Central Texas, where                                Church, where      gears rather than the steps leading
          my Mother, Anne,                                    she attended       to the catwalks around the various
          graduated high school.                              faithfully until   mechanisms that separated lint,
          My siblings and I called                            she had a bad      seed, burrs, and such and conveyed
          our grandparents Lollie                             stroke that left her   them to the proper spots. I knew
          (Lola) and Jim.  We called Lollie’s   paralyzed and placed in a nursing   every hidey-hole in that building. I
          mother, Grandmother.               home for seventeen years before she   would be alarmed if my children or
                                             died just a few months shy of her   grandchildren did what I did at that
          Grandmother (Bertie) lived in Hale   hundredth birthday. Visiting her there   age. I also enjoyed helping Rooster,
          Center and spent a lot of time with   was difficult because of her inability   Leon’s right hand man, make repairs
          us. She had a little round screen TV   to speak. I learned that sometimes,   whenever I could.
          in her home and liked to watch the   love is just presence. God has used
          Dallas Cowboys on Sundays after    that reminder to strengthen me since   Lollie was a beautiful, dignified lady
          worship and wrestling whenever it   my wife Jody’s stroke 20 months ago.  who was also so much fun. Most of
          was on. Grandmother was small but                                      the time, she wore her dark hair up
          feisty and would get upset at the   My granddad, Jim, owned and        in a crown of braids on top of her
          refs when the game wasn’t going the   operated the gin at Estacado, a few   head. She was a great cook – famous
          Cowboys’ way or when the “good”    miles northwest of Lorenzo, on the   for her pound cakes and banana
          wrestlers, like Ricky Romero or the   Lubbock, Crosby County line. I would   pudding. The men would wash, dry,
          Funk brothers, were                                                    and put away the dishes after meals.
          getting hammered                                                       In the evenings, we would often sit
          by the “bad”                                                           on the front porch, visiting neighbors,
          guys. Righteous                                                        watching the Boy Scouts rolling each
          indignation would                                                      other in tires, and listening to cicadas.
          spew at those                                                          Mornings would find us gathered
          unrighteous attackers                                                  around the kitchen table where Lollie
          of the good guys.                                                      or Jim would read from the Bible and
          I never witnessed                                                      Upper Room devotional and pray
          anything other than                                                    our thanks to begin the day. Every
          a sweet disposition                                                    Sunday, we attended the Methodist
          any other time. I                                                      Church where Lollie sang in the choir,
                                                                                 and Jim was an usher. Several times,



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